As soon as they feel smothered, they will surely withdraw.
Virgos are super sociable and love being with people, but they are also fiercely independent and like to do things on their own.
If they suspect they are in a one-sided relationship or friendship, you will get a one-way ticket out of their lives.
They just don't believe in investing in someone who isn't investing in them.
Prepare yourself for the next blowup because unfortunately, it probably won't be any less explosive. Virgos hate mind games, and they don't like to guess how you're feeling or make assumptions. They view mind games and withholding of emotions as immature and a complete waste of their energy.
Open communication is key with a Virgo, but do so with tact, please.